Treating all religions equally, favoring no religion more than the other, no discrimination among sexes & giving them equal opportunities, no hatred for other religions & giving them equal respect as ours, that's Secularism. We have been listening that since our school days as your parents or Civics teacher must have taught you. But didn't they tell you that how much those principles have been implemented to really make India a secular country. We boast of our country being secular but are we really. I don't mean to offend my country ,I am as much Indian as those ministers who are sitting there at Delhi. I am just worried about my country & couldn't find anyone to talk to ,so am here writing down & hope it proved to be a fruitful writing. Lemme try to analyze some situations some incidents, lemme get some inference and then you decide.
The first point I would like to raise is the caste based fuckking reservation. I donno from what aspect they find it in favour of nation & its people. On one hand they are talking about secularism & other hand they are dividing the society on the basis of caste. Will it help in attaining social harmony? How can I be at good terms with someone if I feel like he's robbing me of what I deserve. It will certainly create differences in the society & will make the whole meaning of secularism irrelevant. If you really want upliftment of society provide reservation on the basis of economy irrespective of caste.
Next I would like to talk about the Madrasa- The institutions that provide Islamic education. Now, I am not saying that religious education is bad but the problem is that many of the madrasas are misguiding the youths. They have been filling the hearts & souls of these innocent youngsters with hatred towards West. They have been telling them that even though they are Indian citizens but this country doesn't care about them. Even if something happens which has nothing to do with religion, these madrasas present them in a way to show that it was against Islam & was meant to destroy their identity. The problem can be solved & these madrasas can become a genuine center of religious education provided they should be registered. Just like a technical institute gets a recognition from government ,we can have same thing for madrasas. Moreover, these madrasas should not be exclusively for Muslims but anyone who is interested in Islam should be allowed. If that can happen then I won't hesitate in calling India a secular country.
Politics has always been the greatest threat to secularism of a country, atleast that's what I think. Be it the killing of sikhs in 1984, the Ayodhya kand, the Bombay riots of 1992-93 or the Godhra riots , in one way or another can be related to politics.
Ayodhya was about the destruction of a mosque which ultimately led to the bloody riots in the country. I don't know why such a fuss over a mosque. Was the existence of that mosque was more important than the human lives? Wasn't it possible to have both Hindus & Muslims going to a common place for worshipping?Imagine if that could have been possible what would the picture of our society. India would have been a true secular country. But for them we are just a vote bank. Politicians can go to any extent for votes.Take the case of a party that deliberately started riots in a city during the time of election, so that it can impose curfew & the opposition party won't be able to campaign. For me , I was really shocked.Anyway, lets get back to Ayodhya. Politicians needed to woo the people & Hindus being in majority they thought the best way to do have the Hindu votes is to demolish the mosque, without even thinking the consequences. And the politicians knew that this is going to work because still religion is one of the most important thing for the people in INDIA, more important than a human life or someone's emotions.Now, I am not saying religion is irrelevant ,it's an important aspect of our identitiy but there should be some rationality behind every religious thinking. Therefore, as far as possible there should be clear boundries between religion & politics. Don't blend them , someone has said , " Religion & Politics go side by side , If you don't understand religion you can't understand politics" -- man guess you would like to give it a thought.
The similar case was the Godhra riots. Without know the cause for the fire ,the Hindus OR better to say ,"a section of Hindus" mainly those VHP, RSS etc. assumed that muslims are behind this. Hundreds of innocent muslims were killed. Even if a few muslims were behind that Godhra incident the government should have tried to look out for them and prosecute them. But punishing a whole community I couldn't understand this. As I have said earlier, these Extremist organisation like VHP etc shouldn't exist. Many girls were raped, many children killed, men were burned alive -- Is this the way one seek justice in a democratic country?
So, what I conclude from this is - ban the organisations like SIMI, RSS etc & I am not talking about passing a law stating that they are banned but an effective ban. Use police and if required Army but pleas "eliminate" them.
Seculariam also involve treating the sexes at par. But still after 60 years of Independence the condition of women is pathetic. Though, that's more in rural areas but urban areas are not left untouched too. Recently I read an article in newspaper about a minister(TN or Karnataka ,i guess) whose daughter is not allowed to study abroad, she can't wear jeans, if she hangs out with friends she has to inform her parents before doing so while his brother, pursuing higher studies abroad, chills out with frnds and nobody gives a damn what is he doing. Why such difference?Girls also have equal right to do whatever the guys can do. I don't know why the society always blames girls. If a guy is out with frnds it's all right but if a girl does the same, even with girls, there are talks all around. Still in Indian society parents think the ultimate aim of a girl is marriage ,though things have been changing- accha hai. Husbands asks their wives to stay home,no jobs. Now I donno how does it make sense. For first few yrs. its fine ,but once the child is ready to go to school women can go for jobs. Everything can works what you need a little cooperation. This mindset of society has to be changed. Men should understand that women too have dreams, they should try to cooperate with them, don't just think of them as someone who's there just to raise your child though that hell of a job & they do it so perfectly.You gotta praise them for this guys.
However, this is one front where things have been changing. More & more women are concentrating on their career, the attitude of people towards girl child is also changing - ppl nomore think them of some kinda burden, 'cuz aaj kal ladkiyan cracku ho gayi hain yaar , in fact guys seems to be the burden.:P And as from our side ,girls we will try to do as much as we can( hope I will get your supports guys). No nation can progress unless it respects its women.
So, at the end of the day --
Separate Politics from religion THOUGH it seems difficult.
No more extremists organisation like SIMI, RSS etc BUT with the involvement of politics they will exist.
No preference on the basis of caste in the name of progress ,like that reservation thing AGAIN Politics makes it impossible to achieve.
Women need to be respected & should be treated on par with Men. Now this one thing is in our hand. Lets start from here guys. Nations cease to exist if women aren't there, both metaphorically & literally.
But again , Who do these politicians represent? Obviously the society - - so unless & untill the ppl chg their thinking becomes more rational the problems will continue. And how does this rational thinking comes- you got it right- Education. Not just education that's taught at school but general awareness.
~ deepak sirari